प्रेम आणि लग्न ह्या दोन गोष्टींची सांगड घालणं आपल्याला एवढ का महत्वाच वाटत ? mhanje either pratyek veli prem asla mhanje lagna jhalach pahije hi aT kinwa lagna jhala aahe tar prem aslach pahije hi aT. he chukicha nahi vaatat ? mulat hya don goshtinchi levelach ek nahiye. eka goshtila atishay practical base aahe aani dusri gosht ha fakt ek manasik anubhav aahe.
lagna he thodyafar pramanat "soy" aahe asa mhantla tar mala nishchit manya aahe. kiman te julavtana tar tyat soy pahilich jaate...aani ti hi fakt tya don vyaktinchi navhe tar aju-bajuchya anek mansanchi (jyanna aapan family mhanto pan jyat itar anek samajik ghatak astat ase) suddha. mag pudhe sahavasane prem nirman hote ka fakt savayine sansar hoto he majhya mate tya tya vyaktivar avalambun aahe.
pan mulatach prem mhanje kaay ? majha kunavar tari prem aahe mhanje majha tya vyaktishi lagna vhava hi ichha yogya aahe pan haTT nakkich nasava. kinwa majha jari ekhadya vyaktivar prem asel tari tya badlyat tyachya kadun tasach response expect karnyat hi arth nahi. kunacha tari aaplyavar khup vishwas asava asa vaagna, tya vyaktishi changli maitri asna, tya vyaktila aaplya javal swatacha man mokla karta yena, tya vyaktila aapli bhiti na vaatna, kuthlyahi paristhitit aapala madaditacha haat pudhech asel ha vishwas tya vyaktila vaatna, tyachya dukkhat aapan kiman tya vyaktila sobat dena aani asha anek goshti mhanje prem asa mala vaatata. jithe "mala kaay milel" hyacha vichar na hota "mi kaay deu shakte / shakto" ha vichar asel te prem. je aai aaplya mulavar karte tasa. "mala he milala nahi, mala te milala nahi" he tya vyaktivar nahi swatavar prem karna aahe aani ti "soy" nahiye swarth aahe. mag he asa jar prem asel tar tya pudhchi payari mhanje lagna ashi demand kaa asavi ?
majhya mate aapan prem aani lagna hyat khup gallat karto mhanunach chukta. lagna hi soyach aahe mag te arrange marriage aso va love marriage aani he jar dhyanat ghetla tar kuthlach lagna far fasaychi aavashyakta nahiye khara tar.